22.04.2025

๐—œ ๐—ด๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ต ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜…๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜†.

๐—œ ๐—ด๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ต ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜…๐˜โ€ฆ

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๐—œ ๐—ด๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ต, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜…๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜†.

I was about 23 or 24.

It wasnโ€™t a serious crash โ€” thank God โ€” but serious enough that my neck hurt and my nerves were shot.

Still, I got up.
Got dressed.
And went to work.

Because thatโ€™s what we were raised to do.
Unless it was catastrophic โ€” you showed up.

Iโ€™ll never forget what happened next.

My line manager looked at me and said:

โ€œYou need to go home. Youโ€™ve been in a car accident.โ€
I said no.

They said,
โ€œYouโ€™re not staying.โ€

And Iโ€™ll forever respect them for that.

Back then, calling in sick wasnโ€™t even a thought unless your body ๐—ฝ๐—ต๐˜†๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฑ๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ.

We normalised โ€œpushing throughโ€ โ€”

To the point that even a crash didnโ€™t feel like enough of a reason to rest.

But hereโ€™s the shift Iโ€™ve seen in todayโ€™s workforce:

People are calling in sick for things we didnโ€™t even used to talk about;
โ†ณ Burnout.
โ†ณ Anxiety.
โ†ณ Overstimulation.
โ†ณ Mental fatigue.

And itโ€™s easy to look at that and say:
โ†ณ โ€œTheyโ€™re soft.โ€
โ†ณ โ€œTheyโ€™re not built like we were.โ€
โ†ณ โ€œTheyโ€™ll never survive in the real world.โ€

But the reality is:

Itโ€™s not always the employee.
๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ.

If employees feel they have to lie about being sickโ€ฆ
Or exaggerate their reasons for absence just to be taken seriouslyโ€ฆ

Something is broken.

People arenโ€™t always faking being sick.
๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜†โ€™๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—น๐—น.

๐—˜๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜†๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜€.
So no one feels like they have to hide behind excuses.
And no one feels like they have to turn up the day after a car crash.

Thatโ€™s where we come in.

We work directly with employers to deal with real people problems โ€” not just policy.
Sickness, burnout, absence, performance โ€” all of it.

Weโ€™re strategic, hands-on, and human.

Itโ€™s an all-inclusive HR department โ€” ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—บ๐˜‚๐—บ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ.

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